Why › Your own rhythm
Every friend gets their own rhythm
Your best friend every two weeks. Your old flatmate every couple of months. Both are right, and neither one is a tier.
What this actually looks like
One rule for everyone is wrong for everyone
Weekly nags you about people you see once a year. Monthly loses the people you miss most.
Circles feel like ranking
Inner, middle, outer. You put your brother in the middle and felt bad about it.
Life changes the rhythm
A friend has a baby and the right gap changes. Most apps do not notice.
What Ciao! does about it
A rhythm per person
Every ten days, every three weeks, every couple of months. You set it on the friend, and you can change it any time. Trying to do this with Apple Reminders? The blog has a guide to an iPhone reminder that repeats after you complete it.
No circles to sort people into
Nobody is in a tier. There is just how often you would like to hear from each one.
Pause when life pauses
Someone going through something? Turn off their reminders for now. Their creature rests with a calm face.
Try it with someone you know.
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Marco
You talked today
About a week later, at 6:00 PM
You haven't talked to Marco
It's been a week. Just say hi.
nowThe faces show how long it’s been since you talked to a friend.
Swipe right when you talk. The clock resets.
Try it free for 7 days. A rhythm for each friend.
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