A memory that lives outside your head
It holds the who and the when, so you do not have to keep any of it.

Who it’s for › Out of sight
If somebody is not in front of you they are not in your head. That is how your attention works, and meaning well does not change it.
More on this in the blog: ADHD and friendships.
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Marco
You talked today
About a week later, at 6:00 PM
You haven't talked to Marco
It's been a week. Just say hi.
nowThe faces show how long it’s been since you talked to a friend.
Swipe right when you talk. The clock resets.
The moment somebody leaves the room they leave your working memory. It has nothing to do with how much you like them.
Three in the morning, halfway through a shower, in the middle of something you cannot stop.
An app that pings all day is off within a week, and then it may as well not exist.
It holds the who and the when, so you do not have to keep any of it.

Everyone who is due goes into one evening note, never more than one a day. On Sunday, a short look at who is waiting.

A widget with the faces of who you haven’t talked to in a while, so the people you cannot hold in mind are in front of you again.
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